Patience, daughter, patience. I will show you in My perfect time. Worry is not of Me. Anger is not of Me. Lust is not of Me. Do not let the world overcome you.“…be holy, because I am holy.” (Lev 11:44)
Many times it seems life would be immensely easier if God would allow us to know His full plan for our lives. In prayer, God’s children ask questions such as, “Is this the person I should marry? Am I ready to start a family? Should I take this job? Should we sell our home and move? “. These important inquiries would be nice to have an answer of “yes” or “no” formed from clouds in the sky. But I’ve never had that happen….
Knowing and obeying God’s will requires wisdom, discernment, patience, faith and courage. It’s not to be taken lightly.
This time of year, without fail, I begin planning a move elsewhere. To give you a little background, I first fell in love with the mountains as a young girl. My parents took me along on a trip to Idaho. We stayed in a secluded inn outside of Salmon, surrounded by beauty. My parents could NOT keep me out of the mountains. Climbing up, feeling the air get cool and clean, seeing wildlife and beauty I had previously not known existed…the temptation was too much for me to resist. At that point a love was struck in my heart.
Later on when I was seventeen, I went to a camp called Summit in Colorado Springs. I not only learned incredible foundations for my faith, but once again, that I truly loved everything about the mountains.
Then, I had to go and marry someone from California. Throughout the years we’ve taken numerous trips to the Sierra Nevada mountains. We hike, camp, gold pan and create precious memories. It’s an amazing experience I pray we continue on in our family for many years.
All that background is meant to give you the full understanding of why, during this cold and stuck-inside time of year, I begin planning a move. But this year, God showed me something. He made known to me a very convicting truth about my heart during these difficult times. I’m no different than a married man lusting after a different woman. It doesn’t matter whether it’s after scenery, a person, possession or career. There’s a vicious cycle that begins when we start down the road of lust.
We waste time obsessing over something we don’t have.
This leads to complaining about what we do have.
Then, the justification process begins.
Now, our hearts are left vulnerable to making the wrong decision when opportunities arise.
We cannot force God’s will into meshing together with our desires. Instead, we need to pray as Jesus did, “Yet not as I will, but as You will.” (Matt 26:39). This action of taking every emotion and decision to our heavenly Father keeps us on the straight and narrow path.
Going back to the example from my life, it’s clearly not always outside of God’s will for someone to relocate. But when I finally took my desire to God, He made me aware that I need to be patient and wait on His timing. It’s not where He desired my focus to be pointed.
I don’t need to know the whole plan for my life…and neither do you! When that truth is actually placed in our hearts, it’s extremely freeing. Matthew 6:34 says, “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own”. And Matthew 10:39 tells us, ” Whoever finds his life will loose it, and whoever looses his life for My sake will find it”. I may not be living in a mountain cabin. But God has reminded me that He took time to create specific roles for me to fulfill.
Strive to be a respectful, supportive and joyful wife who clearly communicates.
Work at being a patient, loving mother who teaches by example.
Be a hard worker in whatever areas God directs me. (Currently cooking, writing and reflexology – among others.)
He took time to create specific roles for you to beautifully fulfill too! He knows where we will find the most joy and meaning even better than we do ourselves. He lovingly opens and closes doors. That’s not to say we can’t choose to walk away from the open door or break down the closed one.
When I prayed for God to give me clear signs as to where my family should be, He did just that. My husband was voted in as fire chief for our town’s volunteer fire department. During this time, he was also going through some struggles with his health. Friends and family lovingly came through to help support and care for us during a difficult season. And then as a bonus, our area experienced some amazing weather! This allowed me to play outside with my daughter and remind myself of the beautiful scenery here, too.
God’s will is for us to live our lives in a holy manner; to offer our bodies as living sacrifices (Romans 12:1). This means holding onto our positions and possessions loosely, but holding onto the truths of God with clenched fists. We know that the road to eternal life is narrow. If the goal of our life is to fulfill selfish desires, I highly doubt we’re on that narrow road.
To be holy means set apart for God and pure. That, my friends, is God’s will for us! When we discover who we are in Christ, we can live out our calling no matter what life situation we’re put in.
I’ll leave you with this beautiful quote to let your mind dwell on.
“Let it be done to me according to Your word. Mary had no master plan… Only her Master’s plan.”
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